Is a Bad Hairline a Dating Dealbreaker?

In the swipe-driven era of online dating, many believe a bad hairline is a fast track to romantic rejection. But are bald men really at a disadvantage? We surveyed 1,000 American singles to explore the impact of hair loss on modern dating and self-image. 

Key Findings

• 1 in 4 American singles say they’ve been hatfished — and 1 in 5 people dealing with hair loss have even kept their hat on during a first hookup.
• 1 in 5 singles are using AI to improve their dating profiles — and 38% admit to editing their photos to look better than they do in real life.
• 15% of singles would rather go to jail for a year than go bald.
• 1 in 3 millennials say they’d swipe left on someone who’s losing their hair.
• 70% of singles are spending money to improve their appearance — and more than 1 in 10 are dropping over $1,000 a year to do it.
• 23% of singles say hiding hair loss is a dating red flag.
• 1 in 10 singles have decided not to sleep with someone because of their hair loss.

Hairlines at First Sight: 1 in 3 Millennials Pass Over Thinning Hair

Nearly 2 in 3 Americans say they’re currently experiencing hair loss or thinning, according to our new survey. While 65% of men report thinning hair, 60% of women say they’re noticing hair thinning or signs of female-pattern hair loss, such as a widening part or diffuse crown thinning.

Older generations are feeling the fallout the most: 66% of Gen Xers report experiencing hair loss, making them 25% more likely to go bald than Gen Z adults.

Turns out, success might cost you your hairline. Those earning between $100,000 and $150,000 are 16% more likely to report hair loss than those making under $50,000. Among top earners bringing in $150,000 or more, 66% say they’re going bald.

Despite how common hair loss is, many people still treat a full head of hair as a dating asset. 

The preference for a full head of hair doesn’t just exist — it’s actively shaping our dating behavior. While nearly 1 in 4 have admitted to swiping left over visible hair loss, even more say they’re likely to do so when it comes up. Millennials are the most ruthless: nearly 1 in 3 have passed on matches with receding hairlines or thinning scalps. Gen Z isn’t far behind — 15% say they won’t date someone who’s balding, and another 29% call it a turnoff, even if it’s not a dealbreaker.

But baby boomers? They’re either kinder or just more realistic. 9 in 10 say they match with balding partners, and only 4% would skip a date because of it.

Love When the Locks Thin: 15% of Gen Z Feel Attraction Dip After a Partner Starts Balding

Hair loss isn’t just a personal issue — it can shake up your relationship. 54% say they’d see their partner differently if they started balding. Some say they’d try to be supportive, but not everyone hides their bias: 1 in 10 admit they’d be less attracted to them, and 1 in 20 would actually recommend hair treatments, such as topical solutions, medications like minoxidil or finasteride, or even hair restoration procedures. 

Gen Z is the least forgiving when it comes to hair loss. Nearly 1 in 6 say they’d be less attracted to a partner who starts balding, making them 3.5 times more likely than baby boomers to view it as a turn-off.

Turns out, men care a lot about appearances, at least when it comes to hair. They’re more than twice as likely as women to say they’d lose attraction if their partner started balding (15% vs. 6%). 

Dating double standard? Women are more than twice as likely to be judged when it comes to hair loss. 48% agree women are unfairly judged for balding, while just 23% say the same for men.

What You See (Isn’t Always What You Get)

When it comes to first impressions, hair loss can be a serious source of anxiety. Nearly 1 in 10 say they’d cancel a first date altogether if they were experiencing it. While 55% say they’d show up as-is, others would go into full-on damage control mode: 30% would wear a hat, 18% would use hair fibers or concealer, and 8% would avoid harsh lighting.

Younger daters are the most image-conscious. More than 1 in 6 Gen Zers would skip their date if they noticed hair loss. For millennials, wearing a hat is the ultimate date hack, with 43% choosing this as their solution. 

In today’s world of online dating, profile pics can make or break a first impression. So are daters editing their images to boost their chances? As it turns out, nearly 2 in 5 are. 

Digital Dating Just Got a Lot More Artificial

1 in 5 single adults (21%) have used AI to enhance their dating profiles and boost their self-esteem. However, most aren’t using it to cover up blemishes. Instead, they’re turning to AI for conversational tips. Of those who are turning to AI to help with their dating life: 

• 37% have turned to AI to flirt smarter or keep the convo flowing.
• 34% have used AI to polish or rewrite their dating profiles.
• 30% rely on AI to analyze and optimize their profile pics.
• 33% have leaned on AI chatbots to cope with dating anxiety or insecurities.
• 32% used AI to figure out who they should actually be dating.
• 28% have opened up to AI about their physical insecurities.
• 16% say AI tools have actually boosted their confidence about how they look.

Men are twice as likely as women to use AI tools while online dating. 1 in 5 (20%) use chatbots to improve their profiles, and 12% lean on AI to help with flirting or keeping the conversation going. The emotional side is just as telling: 19% of men turn to AI for support with dating anxiety — whether it’s therapy-style feedback or confidence boosts — compared to just 7% of women.

AI is changing the dating game — but not everyone thinks it’s fair play. Many feel these tools can be deceptive, especially when it comes to crafting dating profiles. Here’s what people say crosses the line.

Still, for 1 in 5 Gen Z and millennials, there’s no issue at all. They say using AI on dating profiles is fair game because “everyone edits these days.”

But how do singles actually feel when the filters drop IRL? What happens when someone shows up looking nothing like their AI-tweaked profile, especially if they used it to hide something like hair loss?

Opinions are almost evenly split. Nearly half say using AI to hide hair loss feels dishonest — but 54% shrug it off, saying it’s just the way things are now. 

Singles Are Being “Hatfished”

1 in 4 have been hatfished on a date. Like “catfishing,” hatfishing has become widely recognized in online dating culture as covering up baldness and receding hairlines, in an attempt to mislead potential romantic partners. Many daters use hoodies, angles, selective selfies, and even AI to hide their hairline online. 

Millennials and Gen Z are the most likely to fall for a well-angled selfie — over a third admit they’ve been hatfished. And when the truth comes off with the hat, it’s men who feel most misled: 30% say they’ve been duped, compared to just 20% of women.

This kind of digital deception has sparked growing distrust, and may even point to a rising wave of what some might call “hairline dysphoria” — a growing unease or distress about hair appearance that affects self-perception. More and more people say they feel misled when others use hats, angles, or editing to hide hair loss online, and many admit they make snap judgments based on those visual cues.

Younger daters are harsher when it comes to hair loss and those trying to cover it up. Among Gen Z, the top reaction isn’t sympathy — it’s scrutiny: 23% say it makes people look older than they are, and 1 in 5 say they’re just in denial and should own it. 

Millennials aren’t much kinder — 1 in 4 also say it ages people, and 19% think it’s time to stop pretending. Still, not everyone’s out for blood: around 1 in 5 from both groups say they respect the hustle at least.

What Would You Trade for Strands? From Jail Time To Dream Bodies

Hair loss anxiety runs so deep that 15% of Americans — more than 1 in 7 — say they’d rather spend a year in jail than go bald. While clearly a hypothetical, this stat highlights the intense emotional impact hair loss can have on some individuals. Scaled nationally, that’s the equivalent of 51 million people willing to trade their freedom for a full head of hair.

Younger people are especially anxious about losing their hair. 1 in 4 Gen Z say they’d rather spend a year in jail than deal with going bald. 

The only group more willing to trade their freedom for their hair? Wealthy women. Nearly 1 in 3 high-earning women (32%) say they’d rather do time than face hair loss — making them nearly three times as likely as men in the same income bracket (12%) to say so.

For many, the allure of a perfect body — hair included — outshines financial success. 1 in 4 say they’d choose flawless looks over financial success and wealth.

Still, despite their hairline anxiety, Gen Z would choose money over looks. Nearly 8 in 

10 Gen Z (79%) say they’d rather achieve financial success than preserve their hair or perfect their body. Their mindset? Thanks to modern treatments, hair loss is no longer an unchangeable condition — many people are seeing promising results with personalized care.

The Cost of Confidence: Gen Z Is Willing To Pay the Price

The majority of singles in the U.S. are willing to spend to look their best. 70% say they’ll bust out their wallets to improve their appearance, whether it’s restoring their hairline or prepping for a date.

For some younger daters, looking good is worth four figures. About 12% of Gen Z and millennials say they’re willing to spend over $1,000 to boost their appearance before a date.

Now it’s understood that talk is cheap — but good hair isn’t. Here’s where people are actually dropping cash to fix, fake, or hide their hair issues.

It’s not always about fixing the flaw — sometimes it’s about distraction. A surprising number of people say they’ve overcompensated for insecurities by dialing up other parts of their appearance or lifestyle.

Mirror-Induced Anxiety: 38% of Gen Z Seek Help for Hair-Related Stress

Worrying about how you look doesn’t just lead to overcompensating — it can also take a real emotional toll. Here’s what people say they’ve experienced because of appearance anxiety:

• 41% avoid having their picture or video taken. 
• 38% are anxious or depressed.
• 29% constantly compare themselves to others.
• 27% avoid looking in the mirror or at photos of themselves.
• 26% avoid social events.

This paints a clear picture: millions struggle with low self-esteem tied to their appearance, and many will go to great lengths to avoid confronting it. The pressure is especially intense for younger people, where body image issues and appearance anxiety are even more pervasive.

• More than 1 in 3 Gen Zers avoid mirrors and photos due to appearance-related anxiety.
• Nearly half (48%) say they constantly compare themselves to others.
• 60% say their appearance makes them feel depressed or anxious.
• 44% of millennials avoid being on camera, and nearly 1 in 3 skip social events because of how they look.

Despite these issues, only 1 in 5 have sought therapy or mental health support to address their body image struggles. 18% are considering it, so that’s a positive. 

Young people are leading the conversation around appearance and mental health.

38% of Gen Z and 29% of millennials say they’ve gone to therapy because of how they feel about their looks, compared to just 14% of Gen X and only 4% of baby boomers. It’s a clear sign that younger generations are more willing to confront these issues head-on.

Social Media: The Silent Confidence Killer 

The root causes of poor self-esteem are varied and complex, but for many singles, social media is making it worse. Nearly 1 in 4 (23%) say platforms like Instagram and TikTok are fueling their body image issues.

And it’s not unfounded either. From double-taps to DMs, online attention is common for those whose looks really pop. 

If you catch Gen Z’s eye on social media, just know — you’re not flying under the radar.
17% will drop your profile into a group chat (whether to gossip or get a second opinion), and another 17% are quietly bookmarking you for later.

Meanwhile, the boldest make their move: 36% of Gen Z men slide into DMs, hoping to turn a like into something more.

With so much attention at stake, it’s no wonder Gen Z struggles the most with social media. Nearly half (44%) say they actively compare themselves to influencers and other social profiles, while another 25% are overwhelmed but do their best to ignore it. 

Doomscrolling leaves most people feeling worse about how they look — and it’s not hard to see why. Social media feeds are flooded with carefully curated profiles, filtered faces, and photoshopped bodies that set unrealistic standards.

The damage isn’t just digital and it doesn’t stop at silent scrolling. For many, appearance-based pressure becomes personal, with real experiences of judgment, ridicule, or even harassment over how they look.

And sometimes, the cruelty hits closer to home. It’s not just strangers or social media trolls — 1 in 10 singles say their own friends have made comments about their hair loss, body, or weight. Another 1 in 10 have seen someone get mocked in a group chat — and nearly as many have been the target themselves.

Hair Loss Halts Intimacy for 1 in 5 Gen Zers

For some, a fading hairline can be a total dealbreaker when it comes to sex. Nearly 1 in 4 say they’ve second-guessed sleeping with someone because of their hair — or lack of it. For 1 in 10, it was a hard no — they bailed before things got intimate. Another 14% weren’t thrilled… but went for it anyway.

When it comes to sex, men are surprisingly choosy about hairlines — especially younger ones.

Men are 75% more likely than women to say that thinning hair gives them pause before sleeping with someone. Gen Z men lead the pack: 1 in 5 (19%) have turned down a partner because of their hair, and 43% say they care about the state of their sexual partner’s hair.

A bad hairline can leave a lasting impression, and not in a good way. Among those who’ve rejected a partner over their hair, 56% say they never looked back — they just couldn’t get past the thinning.

With so much at stake, 1 in 5 people dealing with hair loss admit to keeping their hat on during a first sexual hookup to hide it. Among balding Gen Z daters, that jumps to a wild 43%.

But there’s some hope: 26% say they were eventually won over by their date’s charm or personality and ended up going to bed with someone they initially turned down.

Still, rejection doesn’t just sting — it lingers. Over half of singles (56%) say being turned down hits hard, and many struggle to shake off the emotional fallout. And how do they cope? Let’s just say it’s not always healthy.

In a dating world ruled by visuals, hairlines have become high-stakes. From hatfishing and AI-enhanced profiles to rejection trauma and therapy trends, the data paints a picture of a society caught between the pressure to look perfect and the desire to be real. As beauty standards shift and tech continues to blur the line between confidence and illusion, singles in the U.S. are left trying to balance attraction, authenticity, and self-worth — all while still hoping to find love.

Methodology

We surveyed 1,000 single Americans in the summer of 2025 to understand how they feel about hair loss and dating. The study also explored attitudes toward online dating, including AI-edited profile pictures and the impact of social media on self-esteem. Responses were analyzed across age, gender, and income to uncover key trends shaping the modern dating landscape.

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